What does ATM-er (Patron) mean?

You generally know your own value and do not get shattered by a stranger's random opinion.

You have a fairly clear read on your own temper, desires, and bottom lines.

Goals, growth, or conviction push you forward pretty easily.

You are more willing to believe in the relationship itself and less likely to bolt over minor turbulence.

Once you are in, you tend to mean it and give real energy to the bond.

You want intimacy and independence in adjustable amounts.

You would rather assume some goodness is still possible than condemn the world immediately.

You prefer order, process, and not detonating the plan just for the thrill of it.

Your actions usually connect to a bigger reason, even if the full map is still forming.

Progress, results, and forward movement energize you quickly.

You think things through, but usually without fully blue-screening.

You really want things to move. Unfinished tasks itch under your skin.

If people come to you, you can meet them halfway. If not, you do not force it.

Your boundaries are strong, and you instinctively step back when someone gets too close too fast.

Your expression is relatively direct. If it is in your head, it may leave your mouth soon after.